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KlappentextBe: Lead a Happy and Fulfilled Life (the Golden Edition).This book has inspired many readers to create and live a happy and fulfilled life. Through a very simple step-by-step process, Be takes you on a self-dispcovery journey capturing the essence of being truly alie and guiding you to become the creator of your own life. This Golden Edition is the revised edition of Be, with two new chapters 'You and Money: A Love-Hate Relationship,' and The Story Behind the Be Cover.

Nevin Elgendy is a Cerifited Life Coach, runs an online coaching business called niVoforlife. Her online channels, blogs and Vblogs are followed by over 1.5 million persons.

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Weitere ISBN/GTIN9789778616118

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FormatEPUB

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FormatE101

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Diwan

Erscheinungsjahr2024

Erscheinungsdatum01.01.2024

Seiten156 Seiten

SpracheEnglisch

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Artikel-Nr.14346378

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INTRODUCTION

The Why´

Nevin, you won´t make it in life! my teacher said!

Back in school, almost thirty-five years ago, I had an English teacher to whom I submitted an assignment. Later, she couldn´t find it. She said: It´s not even important to find it because I´m sure it´s not good enough.

This was something very difficult to hear but what affected me even more, for a long time, was the comment she made as she was leaving the class: You will never make it in life!

I carried those words inside of me for so many years, believing them about myself, and because of that, I did not make it for quite a long time. And it´s not out of lack of my abilities but only because I believed her.

My life changed when I started believing new stories about myself and it was quite fascinating to remember this incident on the very day I finished writing my first book... This book!

I was helping a friend find her voice in a relationship she was struggling with. My friend said, Nevin, I am not a good writer like you. Ironically, at that very moment, my teacher´s comment rang in my ears. And it hit me, I´ve come a long way and she was wrong!

On that same day, I was working with one of my clients, who´d been offered a new position, one she was looking forward to for years. However, when it manifested, she got scared because a couple of her trusted colleagues said that this position was very vague and she should refuse it. I asked her, Isn´t this what you wanted to do for years? Her answer was Yes! So the problem is that it´s vague, yes? Then define it, ask questions and find your answers.

I asked her to look back five years and see how far she has come and asked her if she thinks this person can do this new job today? That was when her energy shifted and gave me a solid YES! I said to her, I bet those two trusted colleagues have been doing the same job for years? She said, Yes!

Don´t allow people to project who they think they are´ and make you believe this is who you are´. I have done that... I lived both worlds.

Choose your world. Choose who you are and who you want to become.

So, how and why did I decide to write this book?

It all started when I began hearing the same comments from different people, like friends, mentors, and even clients, but the funniest one came from my masseuse.

I had sold my Ottawa house and was on my way to Toronto. Being totally exhausted after arriving, I decided to go treat myself to a massage. Karen, my masseuse, is a very gentle soul. I was starting to relax when she suddenly said, Nevin, I see you in a bookshop, sitting behind a table and a lot of people are lined up in front of you. They´re coming for you to sign a book, which you are the author of, and it has your picture on the cover.

Totally amused, I said: What?!

Yes, people who know me, whom I share my story with, tell me: Nevin, you should write a book. But Karen knows nothing about me. I personally did not know´ myself yet as well. That´s why, to me, her observation was quite creepy âº.

I believe this is when I seriously started considering writing a book.

When I think of why people were making those comments a lot, I guess it has to do with my personal stories and the life I lived. I am an Egyptian who attended the American University in Cairo. I am quite conservative by nature and ended up marrying a very liberal man. People can identify with me from both the East and West because I AM the East and the West. Probably this is why I chose to live in Istanbul, a city that combines Europe and Asia into one. Again East and West... I am Istanbul.

Every few years, I would reinvent´ myself. For those who share my life closely, that can be quite challenging, due to my constant changes. But when you think about it, isn´t the only constant in life Change´?! So actually, I´m living by the Law of Life: Change. It is that awareness of change´ that makes my life interesting.

We all have issues that we struggle with, which are actually opportunities in disguise. They are here to teach us something about ourselves, about what we need to change in our lives´, and thereby, change how we feel´ about our lives. This is exactly why I´m writing this book, to show you how to change and create your heartfelt desired life´.

So how does one go about doing this?

First, you need to understand your inner´ world, in order to know and lead the change in your outer´ world. The pathway to change in your life is in changing yourself´. The key here is knowing that YOU CAN change your life.

It´s important to note that, when a couple decides to be together, they need time to know each other, and this is a relationship that can be broken at any given time. On the other hand, the one relationship that will last throughout your existence is your relationship with yourself. So, it´s very important to know who you are, in order to start creating the life that you really want.

I went through different phases in my life. One very important phase extended for almost ten years, where I went into cocoon´ mode by spending a lot of time alone. I was on a mission: Traveling inward to know´ Nevin! I really wanted to pause and know this person, whom I will be spending the rest of my life with. I remember my daughter saying that she felt I was depressed for those ten years. This was the first time I realized that this was how I was being perceived. When actually I was starting the most important journey of one´s life... my inward´ journey!

A lot of times we think we know what we want. And when we get there, we realize it is not what we really want. Why? Because it was what we thought´ we wanted. However, we really don´t know what we want´ until we know who we are´!

The following were the questions I was looking for the answers to, in those ten years:

Who am I?

What feels right for me?

What feels wrong for me?

What´s my mission?

What are my strengths?

What is my dream?

What motivates me?

How can I make a difference?

What am I struggling with?

How can I help me?

How can I help others help me?

What are these struggles telling me about me?

What do I need to change in me?

I realized that when I get to know this person, the real Nevin, she will grow, knowing that when she grows, she will grow her life and help others grow. This is why I am writing this book!

I want you to know that whatever is going on in your life, it is not final. That you always have choices. Life is happening all the time. But How We Show Up is our choice. Our attitude is our choice. But first we need to know, believe, and act, and this is when we can master our attitude and start owning our emotions.

When we don´t depend on situations or others to make us happy, we become the creators of our experiences:

When we really understand this cliché of We are Mind, Body, and Spirit.

When we get to know how the mind, body, and spirit operate.

When we, with our new awareness, orchestrate the relationship between the mind, the body, and the spirit, for the wellbeing of the whole. The wellbeing of YOU!

Yes

You can create the life of your dreams.

You can be who you are, and be loved and respected for your true authentic´ self.

You can totally own your emotions and not be led by random emotions.

You can live in flow.

You can grow.

You can be aligned with your mission.

You can experience relationships on a different level.

Yes, You Can!

In this book, I will share the story of Nevin the Yellow Weed´, as they call me. I will also share stories of my lovely clients, and our secrets of success and how we became the creators of our chosen lives. We were not in a different place than you are today! And you also can live that life and join the niVoforlife´ tribe.

Live from your heart. You will Get Clear... Become Confident... and Go Big.

So, it´s time for You to:

Connect and Listen... The Foundations of Change

Question Your Thoughts... The Breakthrough

Perceptually Relocate... The New Dawn

Take Action... Getting Unstuck/Moving Forward

That´s the path and Home is your destination

So, allow me to guide you back home. In this journey, I am your tour leader, not your tour operator. I will take you to places I have visited; I´m not sending you to places I did not go to myself. My intention is to help you become your True Self and live the life you were born to live.

In these pages, you will identify the questions you need to ask yourself, in order to find your own answers. The right question is always half the answer. Between these pages are the reasons why you are where you are today, plus the path and the way out.

So, follow your heart and find your home.

Before we start this journey, we have some rules:

Just wanting´ to change your life has expired. It is time for a clear decision´ to change.

A clear decision to follow the process.

A clear decision to commit to a new way of thinking and new actions, including taking risks.

To go up,...

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ElGendy, Nevin

Nevin Elgendy is a Cerifited Life Coach, runs an online coaching business called niVoforlife. Her online channels, blogs and Vblogs are followed by over 1.5 million persons.

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